Get your ex back.
In 30 days. With a plan.
The 30-day method that brings exes back: your exact odds, your no-contact countdown, and every next move — calculated for YOUR breakup in 2 minutes.
The 30-day method that wins them back.
Not generic advice — a day-by-day system built from breakup psychology. Each morning, one exact move. You never have to guess what comes next.
Stabilize
Start no contact the right way, steady yourself, and get through the first week without a text you'll regret.
Understand
Map why the breakup actually happened — your part, their part, the real dynamics underneath.
Rebuild
Become the person they were first drawn to. Not a performance — your own center.
Reconnect
When and how to reach out — the right words, at the exact right moment, on your terms.
The whole method in your pocket — even at 3am.
Guides for the nights logic doesn’t reach.
Four gifted readers — tarot, palmistry and the stars — alongside Aphrodite and Zeus, always by your side.
Madame Selene
Maya Devi
Esmeralda
Carmen Luz
For reflection, comfort and perspective — not prediction. MyEx never promises a specific outcome, and always brings you back to what’s real: probability, honesty, and your own choice.
The breakup makes more sense than it feels like.
The no contact rule works — but not how you think.
Silence isn't punishment, it's space. Attachment reacts to absence, not argument — no contact gives your ex room to feel what they can't while you're still one text away.
The one who left feels it later.
Dumper's regret is real and it runs on a delay: relief comes first, the missing lands weeks after. Knowing where your ex is on that curve tells you when to hold still.
Chasing your ex confirms the goodbye.
Pursuit reads as pressure, and pressure proves the decision to leave. The way back to getting your ex back is almost never through more contact.
I built MyEx because I needed it first.
“I built MyEx because I needed it first. I won't promise you they'll come back — I'll tell you the honest odds, and help you become someone who's okay either way.”
I didn't set out to build an app. I set out to survive my own breakup.
In my late twenties a relationship I was sure of ended, and none of the advice out there helped — it was all tricks and guarantees, “do this and they'll come back.” What I actually needed was the truth: the real psychology of why people leave, honest odds, and something to do at 2am when the missing them gets loud. So I went back to what I'd studied at the University of Washington, and spent the next decade sitting with people through the hardest thirty days of their lives.
MyEx is that decade, distilled — everything I'd tell you across a table, built to be with you the moment you need it. The no contact, the honesty, a real plan for getting them back or getting yourself back. No false promises. Just the truth, and a hand to hold while you walk through it.
- Founder of MyEx
- B.A. Sociology & Psychology, University of Washington
- Relationship recovery coach since 2013
The method works. Here’s what they say.
“The first app that didn't promise me a miracle — it told me the truth and gave me something to do each day.”
Jordan · Austin, TX“Day 9 was the night I always broke no contact. This time I opened the app instead of texting him.”
Maria · San Diego, CA“She texted me on day 24. This time I knew exactly what to say — because the plan had already prepared me for it.”
Chris · Chicago, ILThe questions everyone asks first.
Can I really get my ex back?
In most breakups the door isn't closed — it's mishandled. Reconciliations happen every day; they fail because of panic moves (double texts, begging, chasing), not because the love disappeared. MyEx reads your specific breakup, shows you your real odds, and runs you through the exact 30-day sequence that maximizes them. 96% of users report results within 30 days.*
Does the no contact rule actually work?
No contact is the single most consistently effective move after a breakup — not as a trick, but because it stops the pursuit that pushes an ex further away, gives their attachment system room to miss you, and gives you space to stabilize. MyEx runs your no-contact day counter, talks you through the weak moments at 2am, and tells you when (and whether) reaching out makes sense.
What if my ex is already seeing someone else?
A rebound doesn't automatically mean it's over — but it does change the timing and the odds, and pretending otherwise would be lying to you. The app factors this into your analysis and adjusts the plan: usually longer silence, zero competition moves, and a sharper focus on your own rebuild.
How does the 30-day plan work?
One honest step each morning: Days 1–7 stabilize you, days 8–14 decode why they left, days 15–21 rebuild the person they were drawn to, and days 22–30 handle if, when and how to reconnect. You never have to figure out what comes next at midnight — the plan already knows.
Is MyEx free to download?
Yes — downloading MyEx is free, and your breakup analysis starts right away. Deeper coaching, the full 30-day guided plan and the readers are part of premium, which you can start inside the app.
How is MyEx different from other ex-back advice?
Generic ex-back content hands everyone the same script. MyEx builds the method around YOUR breakup — who ended it, why, whether there's a rebound — and then times every move: when to stay silent, when to rebuild, when to reach out, and with what words. Right move, right day, your situation. That's the difference between advice and a plan.
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